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Wednesday 6 June 2012
Attitude Changes Everything
Attitude Changes Everything
Attitude Is Everything Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life." "Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life." I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. I read, 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything." "Yes," I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled,"Bullets!" Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead." Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything. --- By Francie Baltazar-Schwartz
50 Best Quotations
50 Best Quotations
1. We create our own Reality.
2. “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” ― George Bernard Shaw
3. Do, what you love.
4. Follow your passion.
5. We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. KNOW THYSELF!!!
6. “Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” ― Dr. Seuss
7. “Everything you can imagine is real.” ― Pablo Picasso
8. “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” ― Albert Einstein
9. “The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” ― Mark Twain
10. “I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.” ― Albert Einstein
11. “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” ― Margaret Mead
12. “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” ― Anne Frank SO, EVERYBODY SHOULD TEACH MEDITATION.
13. “We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” ― May Sarton BE A MASTER. LIVE LIFE OF YOUR DREAM.
14. “Do not read, as children do, to amuse yourself, or like the ambitious, for the purpose of instruction. No, read in order to live.” ― Gustave Flaubert READ GOOD BOOKS DAILY.
15. “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” ― Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie WE ARE ETRNAL BEINGS.
16. “The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.” ― Isaac Asimov CULTIVATE SPIRITUO-SCIENTIFIC TEMPER.
17. “You cannot find peace by avoiding life.” ― Virginia Woolf ENJOY NORMAL FAMILY LIVES.
18. “Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.” ― Oscar Wilde LIVE LIKE ZORBA THE BUDDHA.
19. There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections.
20. “Life is to be enjoyed, not endured” ― Gordon B. Hinckley
21. Tell the truth, or someone will tell it for you.
22. “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” ― Søren Kierkegaard KNOW YOUR PAST LIVES.
23. “The more I see, the less I know for sure.” ― John Lennon
24. “The best index to a person's character is how he treats people who can't do him any good, and how he treats people who can't fight back.” ― Abigail Van Buren
25. “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” ― Anaïs Nin
26. “We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.” ― Paulo Coelho
27. “A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.” ― Lao Tzu
28. “Do not despise your own place and hour. Every place is under the stars, every place is the center of the world.” ― John Burroughs, Studies in Nature and Literature
29. “The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone, but the things you do for others remain as your legacy.” ― Kalu Kalu DO SERVICE. TEACH MEDITATION.
30. “If you care about something you have to protect it – If you’re lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it.” ― John Irving
31. “Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.” ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love
32. “A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.” ― Kurt Vonnegut
33. “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche
34. “The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you.” ― Stephanie Perkins,
35. “It is not the length of life, but the depth.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
36. “The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams.” ― Oprah Winfrey
37. “There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.” ― Lemony Snicket
38. “There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.” ― Lemony Snicket
39. “Develop an interest in life as you see it; the people, things, literature, music - the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself.” ― Henry Miller
40. “You were given life; it is your duty (and also your entitlement as a human being) to find something beautiful within life, no matter how slight.” ― Elizabeth Gilbert
41. When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change.-Paulo Coelho
42. Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.'No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster.
43. “eventually, everything goes away.” ― Elizabeth Gilbert
44. “The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, (unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that that situation is over, ) you cannot move forward.” ― Steve Marabol
i45. “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much” ― Helen Keller SANGHAM SARNAM GACHHAMI
46. “Never complain, never explain. Resist the temptation to defend yourself or make excuses.” ― Brian Tracy
47. you make your own happiness(, that part of going for what you want means losing something else. And when the stakes are high, the losses can be that much greater.”)― Emily Giffin48. you make your own happiness, that part of going for what you want means losing something else. And when the stakes are high, the losses can be that much greater.” ― Emily Giffin
49. “The more I live, the more I learn. The more I learn, the more I realize, the less I know.” ― Michel Legrand
50. “The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.” ― Oprah Winfrey
51. “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” ― Wayne W. Dyer
52. “Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.” ― Marcus Aurelius
53. “Simplicity is the keynote of all true elegance.” ― Coco Chanel
54. “Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something and has lost something.” ― H. Jackson Brown Jr.
55. “When a man becomes her own best friend life is easier.
56. “The aim of life is self-development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for.” ― Oscar Wilde
57. “Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, "What's in it for me?” ― Brian Tracy
58. “You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” ― Brian Tracy
59. If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart.
60. “We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.” ― Khalil Gibran
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